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A Beautiful Heart

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Self Help blog? What is this and where is this going….. I’m not exactly sure but this is not how I imagined it to be and I really didn’t expect to be writing about such intense topics so openly for  the world to see. I am pretty much an open book and what you see is what you get.

If you are a part of my life I will love you like you are my family but as I have gotten older I started to realise that I treat people the way I would like to be treated…. however this doesnt always get returned. I was discussing this with one of my friends over dinner, we are both very open people and have been through different things in our lives but we don’t want enemies so we forgive people and personally some people don’t deserve our time.

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Letting Go 

This is when we realised that we need to let go of some people and need space, if someone wants to be a part of my life… that include family, friends, potential boyfriends etc they need to make the effort to a part of that life. You don’t need to chase a friendship or love because for it to be real and to be healthy it would be returned and this is all about keeping the balance.

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Keeping The Balance 

Anything in excess is not good for you… I truly believe that! Work- life balance is something they promoted when I worked at apple and it made you feel slightly empowered because they don’t just want you to work yourself into the ground as it’s just a job…. if you are not happy no amount of money will keep you happy forever! In relationships split your time with your love, your family and friends and your career. The person you are with should motivate you to become a better person and push you towards your dreams!

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Putting Yourself First

Some people may think that this is pretty selfish to put yourself first but you live for yourself and help your family and others along the way but never give up your dreams for anyone. I only say this as once I got so ‘lost’ in a bad relationship that I forgot me… this will never happen again because I won’t let it! I understand being married and having children putting yourself first will be a different subject but doing whats best for your family will the priority.

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You Will Be Ok 

Someone said to me that no matter what happens I will be ok… and I’m letting you know that no matter what happens YOU WILL BE OK! God has a plan for you….be good… make the right choices and keep going! Sometimes we just need to pep talk ourselves ( I do this quite a lot in the most random situations) but let yourself know you will be fine! Educate yourself… embrace new things and smile!

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Smile 

Life is fluffy and everything is great sparkly and I’m so in love with my life blah blah blah ( someone grab me a bag to throw up in)… sorry but life is pretty much like a roller coaster… and the worst thing is sometimes I don’t know who is driving it when the ups and downs will come and what random things will come flying my way! All I know is dust yourself off… keep going and embrace the shitty times as well as the amazing times and LEARN from your mistakes! Fail your way into success if you have too!

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What Do You Want?

When was the last time you asked yourself … ‘what do I want to do?’ The amount of times I use to think this at work… and day dream of not sitting in an office looking at numbers and being able to walk freely and do as I please…….. I left that job because it was making me super sad! Point being… what do you want? One day I wrote down EVERYTHING I wanted to achieve on a piece of paper… it’s funny as some of them I can now tick off and some are pretty far away but it made me look at things in perspective! LIFE IS WHAT YOU MAKE IT!

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A Beautiful Heart 

Never stop being who you are for someone else… learn from your mistakes.. be kind… keep that innocence and vulnerability for someone that will never use it against you! Don’t be too hardened by the struggles of life!

Whats Wrong?

Have you ever asked yourself honestly why you have certain hang ups? Why you put yourself down? Why you don’t think you are good enough…. these don’t necessarily relate to me personally but at some point in my life I have asked myself these questions…. Some of these insecurities have come from comparing myself with others… someone making a comment that affects me and then I realise that I need to set my own standards on. I am ME…. I don’t need to be accepted by everyone to be seen as a good person.

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The minute to realise that as long as whatever you do you have peace in your heart life will be a much beautiful place. You are beautiful… inside and out…. appreciate and embrace your difference wether that be your freckles… curly hair… being a book worm … whatever!

Except you… you don’t need anyone else’s approval but YOURS!

…. LOVE YOURSELF

KISSES

XOXO

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